Depression is not confined to the mind alone. It affects every single aspect of your lives. Prolonged depression takes its toll on your physical, emotional, and mental wellbeing. This sometimes leads to problems in personal relationships and the one that takes the worse hit is your relationship with your partner\/spouse.<\/p>\n
Depression can cause a perfectly healthy relationship between partners to go sour. This only adds further trouble in the lives of people going through a rough patch (depression in this case), because let\u2019s face it \u2013 a strong relationship between partners\/spouses is therapeutic. It is a source of love, comfort, support, and closeness.<\/p>\n
When a person is depressed, they tend to become withdrawn. They feel lethargic and are often unable to find the energy or motivation to do even the most normal things in life \u2013 this includes sex too!<\/p>\n
Loss of appetite, sleeplessness, loss of intimacy, mood swings, and inattentiveness are common in people with depression. Most of the times these acts make the other partner feel unloved and\/or unwanted \u2013 this is where the problem begins \u2013 this is where relationships begin crumbling.<\/p>\n
Depression tends to upset the routine systems and functions of your body, either slowing them down or displacing them. This impact is most vivid in the case of sleep. You might have noticed how a person with depression has trouble with sleep \u2013 either they sleep too less or too much \u2013 in each case, sleep is invariably disrupted.<\/p>\n
Similar is the case with intimacy and sex. Having sex requires good co-ordination, spontaneity, and most importantly \u2013 it requires energy \u2013 lots and lots of energy. Unfortunately, people suffering from depression aren\u2019t really up for things that require \u201ctoo much effort\u201d, which is why intimacy between couples is the first thing hit by adversity.<\/p>\n
Depressed men experience a loss of libido and may even face problems with getting an erection. Women on the other hand, lose their interest in sex and have trouble reaching an orgasm.<\/p>\n
The good thing is that these problems disappear when one starts improving their condition. As depression wears off, people may find their interest in sex renewed, which happens to be one of the first signs of recovery.<\/p>\n
Through couples\u2019 therapy, we at Silicon Valley Marriage Counseling can help you overcome depression and bring back intimacy to your relationship. After all, everyone deserves to be happy in life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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