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Sex addiction is a serious issue that can ruin years of love and trust. As you begin to deal with your partner\u2019s addiction, there might be several questions in your mind. Here\u2019s how you can move toward healing and recovery together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Learn More about Sex Addiction<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Often spouses wonder why they weren\u2019t thin or beautiful enough and think they \u2018failed\u2019 somewhere in their relationship. That\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Addiction affects the brain and can have varying reasons for an addict. The more you learn, the better you, your spouse, and your relationship will be able to heal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Never Blame Yourself<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Like a lot of spouses that get betrayed, the thought of \u201cwhat if I had\u2026\u201d has already passed through your head. Never blame yourself for your partner\u2019s addiction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not only will it take a toll on you, but if you have decided to stay and help your partner through it, you won\u2019t be able to offer any support. Sex addiction can result from adverse childhood experiences\u00a0or other challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Practice Positive Self-talk and Self-care<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Your partner isn\u2019t the only one going through the path of recovery; take the time to practice self-healing. Indulge in self-care and positive self-talk. It\u2019s in no way selfish for you to put yourself first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be Supportive of Your Spouse<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019ve chosen to stay with your spouse, be as supportive as you can be. It\u2019s pertinent to remember that they\u2019re also healing. Recovery from any addiction takes time<\/u><\/a>, and so does rebuilding trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t let the past cloud your present, and try living in the now. Focus on enjoying the good times and finding healthy ways to cope with the bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are ways you can help them as well. Group therapy and inpatient or outpatient rehab will let give them assurance that they\u2019re not alone in this addiction and treating it is possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Don\u2019t be an Enabler<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s a difference between being supportive and enabling them to continue with their addiction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to forgive and avoid judgment. However, if they relapse, you shouldn\u2019t cover for them. The more you sweep it under the rug, the harder it will be for them to recover.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Establish Firm Boundaries<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When living with a sex addict, it\u2019s necessary to establish boundaries. Remember, forgiveness and forgetting are not the same things. Making your partner \u2018pay\u2019 for their betrayal will not help. Instead, it may make them retreat into a higher level of secrecy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Forgiveness doesn\u2019t mean you forgo all your pain; rather, you relinquish your right to punish them. Forgiving will release you from your bitter feelings and will help you heal too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Consult with a Professional<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

We can help you deal with your life\u2019s problems with various therapies and counseling at Silicon Valley Marriage Counseling. We advise you to consult an experienced family therapist for relationship counseling<\/u><\/a> and marriage counseling <\/u><\/a>in Palo Alto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Call at (650) 206-9973<\/u><\/a> to get a free 20-minute phone consultation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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